{I've been refraining from writing recently because feelings change so often and I'm afraid of what people will think of me. Today I realized that my writing has always been driven by fickle emotion, and I like that, and my plan is to write for the rest of my life. I will always have skeptics. You will see that I have published posts that I was afraid to - from recently and a while ago. I'm not afraid anymore.}
After thinking this ordeal through, I've decided that I'm not the 'bad guy'. With as much blame can be put on me for many things that I have done, there is an equal amount for he who is on the opposite end of this. The scientist in me drives me to make reference to Newton's Third Law of Motion; For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. I see a heavy silver ball swinging and clicking, causing the ball on the other end to swing in an opposite way. That's this situation. In a relationship, Newton's Third Law is always taking place, in a sense. You balance each other out. In order for you to do something, I had to have pushed you to it, and vice-versa.
Whenever Newton's Third Law pops up in a relationship, you should always try to work it out. You should admit to being partially responsible and should expect your other half to take the blame.
When they don't, you should speak, all rashness aside, because communication is the key.
When that doesn't work, you need to question if he's worth fighting for.
If he isn't, walk.
If he is, fight to the death.
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